I Don't Hate You, I Have Just Been Too Busy!

I haven’t been writing because I don’t love you anymore, I just have not had the time! Wait until you hear what I have been doing!

It’s been rough the past 2 weeks: a fun and exciting trade show for adult products and internet sites, back to school teaching, a new boyfriend come and already gone, and a now for the big news: I just opened my own Lingerie Store!

I am so excited about this new store. I spent forever checking out various lingerie companies and hundreds and hundreds of styles. I tried on so many different styles and sizes we needed a video camera log to keep track of it all! From the cutest teddy to the sexiest body stocking, mini dresses, pantyhose, camis, you name, I wore it! Well the store is now up and running and fully stocked with even more on the way in.

It has always been a dream of mine to be in the fashion industry and I must say I have an eye for what is sexy so selling lingerie is a natural. It felt so good to put on sexy clothes and act out in all of my new outfits, it was such a turn on! I am even thinking of getting some wigs for a little fantasy role playing I would love to try.

For now my Lingerie Store only has lingerie and sexy clothes but I am working with some suppliers of some body jewelry like nipple rings, belly rings, tongue rings and clit rings. I even have some special ”personal massagers” picked out to have in my store by the end of September that not only work like a champ to release any little bit of stress you have in your body. Some specials love oils, message kits and sex education and instructional books will be there for your shopping pleasure as well.

What makes you feel sexy? I want to know! Do you want to see me carry costumes and role playing props? Body paint? Tell my your fantasies!

Sex Toy Convention!

I have been a bad girl. I have not been posting here for days now as I was attending my second adult trade show. This one was right around the corner from me in Hollywood Florida.

The hotel was beautiful and right on the beach with a spectacular view and a brand new beach to replace the one washed away last year from all of the hurricanes.

There were thousands of guests attending the show that had a small expo hall and lectures and parties all over the place. This show was geared to people working on the internet in the adult industry and had lots of paysite companies and of course adult sex toys!

I was like a kid in the candy shop. It was a blast! I saw a few new sex toys that I am going to try out and even got to meet the porn star legend Ron Jeremy! Click this link and you will see Ron Jeremy getting humped by an ape at the trade show.

I have a bunch of new sex toys on the way to me and I am in the process of testing a rabbit sex toy that you use over the internet in chart rooms. You will get a full report by next Monday as I am putting it through some grueling tests. I am making sure that not only is the sex toy is top notch but the interface software and the chat rooms that you can use it will be in the review as well.

Stay tuned as this will be my most interesting review yet!

Vibrating Super Head Honcho Masturbator Sex Toy Review

Well I told you about Kevin before, and now I have a little story for you about what his first experience with a sex toy for guys was like.

He wasn’t looking for an inflatable sex toy but something that felt good on his cock and let him climax with the toy. He went through a few dozen toys and what looked most interesting to him was something with a variable vibrator for a more stimulating experience.

I have written before about Cyberskin Like Sex Toys and Kevin obviously reads this sex toy blog so he thought it would be the most comfortable material and was willing to have to spend more time cleaning his toy and keeping it conditioned.

It was with great anticipation that he opened the package of the Vibrating Super Head Honcho Masturbator He had ordered. The hole in the Honcho Masturbator looked small to him but at first touch the material felt wonderful and Kevin was dieing to try out his brand new sex toy.

With a grin he marched me into the bedroom – actually he kinda pulled me into the bedroom as I was watching a movie that was just about over and he wouldn’t wait. In seconds we were naked in bed ready to start our adventure with his new sex toy.

The toy came with some free lube, a vibrating bullet with a wired remote, an USB cable and the Cyberskin sleeve.

He immediately opened up the lube and I drizzled some on him and started stoking his already erect cock. I put some lube on the sleeve and rubbed it in with my finger. I have to say it did feel quite interesting and life like.

Now it was time for Kevin to actually put his penis in the Cyberskin masturbator sleeve and it was a really tight fit. He not only needed more lube but then had to really work himself into it.

Of course like most sex toys there were no instructions so he has to wonder if he was even inserting his cock in the right side but he was. I then inserted the vibrating bullet into the top of the Cyberskin masturbator sleeve and went to turn it on.

Ok the lube made my hands slippery and the remote for the sex toy has black buttons on a black background – wow stupid are the people who make sex toys and other consumer product that are used in dark areas where they make buttons you can not read or see or read! We even had the light on the desk across the room and the TV was on with the sound off and I had to turn the bedside table lamp to read what was on the remote.

Kevin thought that if he inserted his penis into the sex toy sleeve and just turned the vibrator on that would have been enough for him to get his rocks off and cum. After a few minutes of him being buzzed with the sex toy giving him various pulses and throbs of varying intensity he started to lose his erection as it just wasn’t stimulating him. He said it felt ok but no way would it get him off so he could orgasm.

We both then figured he would have to stroke his cock with the sleeve in order to climax but the sleeve was just too tight on him for him to be able to get off that way. He tried for about 10 minutes to no avail. It just would not let him orgasm even though I used the vibrating bullet that cam with the sex toy on his balls which he liked, but after a while even that got annoying to him.

He then wanted to see if it was just him so he pulled the sleeve off and in less than 3 minutes of me jerking him off he had what he described as a slightly better than normal orgasm, but he did ejaculate much more than normal.

He tried the sex toy 2 more times with basically identical results. His first male sex toy was a complete disappointment to the 2 of us.

Well all is not lost as the vibrating bullet had the most control I have seen for this type of sex toy and I now tried it 4 times and although I have had better sex toys, this is the best vibrating bullet I have used equal to the Sterling Twin Bullet Vibrators pictured below.

In conclusions since the Vibrating Super Head Honcho Masturbator was $34.95 and the Sterling Twin Bullet Vibrators was $39.95. If you are looking for a bargain save the $5.00, get some lube and let the man in your life be able to try the masturbator to see if it works for him.

Sex gets better after 40?

Housekeeping magazine survey interviewed 1000 women over 40 about their sex life including some questions about sex toys.

What I was thrilled to read was that more than two thirds of women aged between 40 and 50 give their sex lives a positive seven out of 10. Considering women reach their sexual peak in their early thirties and men before 25, I now feel as though there is hope in my future!

Not only do women still enjoy sex when they get older, about half surveyed had sex two or three times a week and 70% had it at least once a week.

Many of the women who answered the sex questionnaire said that they like sex more now as they know what they want and were much more confident in bed as well. Of course many said sex was better as with no children around there was less stress and far more privacy to have sex when and where they wanted it.

Some other interesting facts were 41% of women that were over 40 bought and used sex toys, and that more than a third of married women who answered the sex survey have had one or more affairs. I guess that sex getting better might now have meant with their husbands but with lovers or some well worn sex toys!

The sex survey also showed that a third saw their partners as more attractive now than when they first met but a quarter of them found younger men more alluring!

I guess confidence and experience, sometimes even a little cosmetic surgery is what makes some of the young guys into what women want!

Are You a 'Sex' Maniac? There Now is a Cure!

How about 94 episodes of sex in the city on 19 discs, along with a 20 th disc of bonus material?

The sex in the city super set is expected to hit the stores Nov. 1. These uncut ”Sex and the City” episodes should stir up new and old viewers who are tired of the cut and edit version on TBS.

Let’s be real, we want the frank and sexual talk (including talking about the rabbit and other sex toys!) and what harm do a few bare boobs do?

Now here is the kicker, not only will you have to wait until November for the DVD collection titled ”Sex and the City: The Complete Series” you will have to dig deep in your pocket as it wont come cheap at $299.95.

The link below is for new and used versions of this DVD on sale.

Ancient Stone Dildo unearthed in cave

OK. I have to admit it. I listen to Howard Stern whenever I can and I could not believe that Robin was reading the news and discussing the exact same news article I was reading about an ancient 28,000 year old phallus. I guess great minds think alike!

Since this sculpted and polished phallus found in a German cave near Ulm in the Swabian Jura is life size, scientists suggest it may have been used as a sex toy.

This prehistoric ”tool” is 20cm-long and 3cm-wide was reassembled from 14 fragments of siltstone. I call it a tool based upon the fact that it was used to knap, or split, flints.

According to Professor Nicholas Conard, from the department of Early Prehistory and Quaternary Ecology, at Tübingen University ”It’s highly polished; it’s clearly recognizable, In addition to being a symbolic representation of male genitalia, it was also at times used for knapping flints as there are some areas where it has some very typical scars from that”.

”Female representations with highly accentuated sexual attributes are very well documented at many sites, but male representations are very, very rare,” explained Professor Conard. There are a few other stone objects that are obviously phallic symbols and are slightly older - from France and Morocco, but to have any representation of male genitalia from this time period is highly unusual. I have to assume that a life size stone dildo would be very much like the glass dildos I have used and written about here.

Sex Motels in Taiwan

Designed for love and used for sex romps, Taiwan is designing some of the most luxurious love hotels in the business. These sexcapades hotel industry is transforming from sleazy, windowless rooms into a multi-billion dollar industry.

Sex motels were first made famous in the 1960s by Japan and South Korea has been on the sex motel bandwagon for years. Sex motel clients range usually range in age from 25 to 50.

The WeGo Motel opened in 2002 with a spacious 87-room facility and is to be one of the most popular love motels in Taiwan. WeGo Taipei manager Henry Bai told reporters ”It is no longer necessary for lovers to resort to cheap or dirty rooms when they want to spend a few hours alone.”

”We don’t want to convey a sex hotel image, so we don’t put much sex equipment [paraphernalia] in the rooms. We are branding the love motel concept, with an emphasis on style and luxury,” Bai said. Besides condoms placed on every bedside table, the upscale rooms certainly don’t look like rooms that are exclusively used for sex. They come decorated in 6 themes from mirrored ceiling pleasure dens to a Titanic Room.

Sex Motel guests in these new upscale venues are usually treated with exceptionally superior service. a wide selection of toiletries and confectioneries are stock in bathrooms and bedrooms that compare to or exceeded the quality of those found in 5 star hotels.

The better lover motels have ISO 9001 certification, which assumes an international standard of quality in the hospitality industry.

Cleaning procedures demand three housekeepers to clean one room, which takes from 20 to 30 minutes per room which is also inspected prior to being rented out.

Clients must be 18 or older and no more or no less than 2 to a room.

There is a feature in the WeGo sex hotel I love; they have a pre-recorded soundtrack that you can play if you make a phone call that sounds like a beach, office or train station.

I have to say, if I ever found myself in Taiwan, I would have to check this place out!

Wealthy Men Do Have Better Sex Lives

An online survey conducted by the BBC of almost 30,000 people from 170 countries which was the largest survey of its kind, found that high earners of both genders boast an increased libido over their poorer colleagues. Here is the kicker though, only the wealthy men end up having more sex!

They claim that this is evidence for the theory that women tend to be more attracted to men with money and resources, but a woman’s wealth does not affect her sex appeal to men.

John Manning, professor of psychology at the University of Central Lancashire, who analyzed the results, stated ”Men accumulate resources, which they use to attract women”.

”When it comes to men with little by way of resources, women are just not interested in them at all. As a man’s earning power goes up, you would expect him to be having more sex and be with more sexual partners.”

According to Professor Manning Feminine charms were barely enhanced by income because men paid more attention to other qualities, such as looks. Now isn’t that sad!

David Buss, of the University of Texas conducted an analysis of 10,000 men and women from 37 different cultures and found a pattern to male and female preferences. Women were much more likely to favor a mate with a high income and social status, but these traits mattered little to men.

You just have to look at the personal ads to see that men seem to emphasize their income and status, but women are more likely to claim look good or have a slim figure.

Sex drive in both men and women is thought to be influenced by the infamous male hormone: testosterone, which is also associated with assertiveness. We know that high levels of testosterone have a tendency to make people more competitive, which often in the business world mean that they will make more money all the while independently increasing their libido.

Looks like this is just one more time when men win the battle of the sexes.

In the past few days I have posted a few stories that were not as sex toy related as one might expect, but I think they it is good for all of my readers to know this things so every once in a while expect to get a more scientific lesson on sex here!

Women Complain About Having Too Much Sex Because Of Viagra

I just read studies by Canterbury University of men and women in relationships where men aged from their mid 30s to early 70s had ”erectile difficulties”.

It seems that that in New Zealand some women are bugged that Viagra is giving their sex life too much of a lift because men want to get their money’s worth and are insisting on having sex - regardless of their partners mood.

One 48-year-old who participated in the study said Viagra made sex inevitable, said the attitude of her husband was: ”I’ve taken the Viagra pill, OK, let’s go”. According to a 60-year-old: ”All of a sudden Viagra became the focus in the house for a while” and complained that it was difficult to adjust to a sudden, vigorous sex life.

Researcher Annie Potts from the Canterbury University is working on a project on ”Viagra culture” and presented some of her findings at a conference in Montreal titled Women and the New Sexual Politics: Profits vs. Pleasures.

The Health Research Council funded a three years' study of the "socio-cultural implications" of Viagra and similar drugs. It was reported in the Montreal Gazette that even though there has been tremendous scientific research on the safety of drugs such as Viagra aimed at improving sexual performance - few studies had looked at the emotional and relational impacts.

This study concluded that those women who were not interested in having sex more frequently actually risked being labeled dysfunctional themselves and that the women may even be pressured to accept some form of treatment.

I guess I am just not at a point in my life where this would be a problem for me!

Sex Toy Survey

At the end of July, there will be a 2005 Global Sex Survey (GSS) and the results will be tabulated from at least 40 counties. The final results of this sex toy survey will be released in November of 2005. Last year there were an astonishing 350,000 respondents, which makes the GSS the largest piece of sex research of its kind in the world.

Take the survey and you will receive five condoms and up to one million condoms will be donated to Dance4Life, an international project that assists young people in becoming more actively involved in the struggle against HIV/AIDS.

All respondents to the sex survey will be entered into a free prize drawing for five days on a game reserve in Kruger and five nights accommodations in Cape Town. The lucky winner will also have an exclusive opportunity to meet with Dance4Life representatives to experience first hand how the program is benefiting from the condom donation.

Even taking second place in this drawing is not too bad as the second place winner will receive a flat screen TV.

Whether you win a prize or not, taking part in this survey should be fun, help those around you, get you free condoms and help promote safe sex and educate the world on sex and sex toys so as far as I am concerned, there are no losers!

Mark your calendars and check out the contest rules that can be found online at: http://www.durex.com.

Canadians Love Their Vibrators!

Well those guys and girls up north known for their obsessions in hockey, curling, and beer, but now according to a study by a manufacturer of condoms and sex toys, 39% of Canadians, both male and female, responded to a survey that they already own a vibrator.

Worldwide vibrator ownership is 27% and it seems that the older one is the more likely that they own a sex toy such as a vibrator. For example vibrator sex toy ownership jumps to 51% among Canadians 25-34, and peaks at 61% among respondents of the sex toy survey that are aged 44-55.

Now it seems that vibrator sex toys are in such a substantial demand in Canada, Alberta, Saskatchewan and Manitoba, for the first time mainstream retail drug stores will be handling vibrating sex toys marketed as personal massagers.

I found a quote by Stephanie Mitelman who is a certified sexuality educator who thinks that’s good news for couples. ”We seem to be increasingly more open to exploring our sexual desires and experimenting with having a little more fun in the bedroom,” said Mitelman. ”The availability of these massagers on mainstream retail shelves is an opportunity for men and women to connect in new ways and celebrate the freedom to enjoy personal massage.”

Glass Dildos and Sex Toys

Yesterday I gave you a short lesson on rubber, Cyberskin, and silicone Dildos. Today I will discuss on of the most talked about sex toy which was features on HBO’s Real Sex TV Show – Glass Dildos and Glass sex toys.

These sex toys even though they are made from glass are perfectly safe and feel fantastic. These Pyrex glass sex toys are works of art that will last a lifetime. They used to range in price from $40 to $300 with most being under $150. This is a huge price drop from only a few years ago when none were less than $400.

The first glass sex toys are made by Asstroknots and those were the ones show in use on HBO’s Real Sex TV Show which started the glass sex toy craze.

When these glass sex toys were first released, the quality of the Asstroknots sex toys were unmatched and well as the sheer variety and functional designs. Given time better knock off glass sex toys are out there but they can not compare to the real deal.

So why are glass sex toys so prized? The feel great, last a lifetime, clean better than any other toy, and unlike excessive vibrator use do not desensitize you. You can find out more or purchase one of these beauties at one of the sites below.

• Glass Sex Toy information: Glass Toys Information.


• Original Glass Sex Toys:RealSexGlassDildos.com.

Glass sex toys and metal dildos are non-porous like silicone and great for the ease of cleaning and can be boiled like silicone. An added bonus is that a little lube goes a long way with these wonderful sex toys.

Dildos: A Short Lesson on Sex Toys

Friday I wrote about a little about some of the historical facts about antique sex toys and some of the new choices in sex toys out there. Today I am going to write about one of the most popular types of sex toys: dildos.

Rather than dildos made from camel dung like they did in the past, dildos are now made from a variety of materials: rubber, silicone, glass, acrylic, vinyl, and metal. Each material has its own advantages and disadvantages as a sex toy.

What I think is real important when picking out you new dildo for a sex toy is both the shape and texture of a dildo since the most sensitive part of the vagina is the outer third. For this reason I steer away from any of the novelty sex toys. If a dildo it is not shaped like a penis or a smooth rod, I do not use it as a sex toy - but that is my personal choice.

You will find that most dildos have a flanged bottom or balls, which do allow you to secure your lovely new dildo into a harness with a metal or plastic ”O” ring. There are harnesses made from leather, vinyl, denim and lots of other materials.

Rubber dildos are the most affordable dildo out there many of which are less than $30. There is a wide range of rubber dildos, including one of my favorites are the ”jellies” which are softer dildos than the plain rubber dildos. You have to clean rubber dildos with an anti-bacterial soap and be careful not to submerge any dildo or sex toy in water if it has any moving or vibrating parts.

If you have ever felt any Cyberskin sex toys you would understand why these are considered the most comfortable and realistic sex toy material. Dildos made from Cyberskin has a very realistic texture and human flesh feel.

Cyberskin Dildos warm quickly to your body temperature which adds to the experience. The most realistic dildo sex toys feature a bendable but firm core to adjust to shape and position. The best dildos even have weighted balls for a realistic feel and balance when used for intercourse with a harness or solo.

Strange but true, Cyberskin is the choice material for anyone who wishes to ”pack” a dildo for a realistic bulge in your pants (such as a Soft Pack), which simulates a flaccid penis.

Cyberskin dildos do require a little more care than most sex toys. After you clean your dildo with soap and water, you must let it dry it thoroughly before you dust your Cyberskin dildo with some cornstarch to prevent it from getting tacky or sticky. It is also real important that you do not rest any Cyberskin or similar sex toys against other sex toys, as it could melt or deform them.

Even with the higher purchase cost and higher maintenance I still think that Cyberskin sex toys are unmatchable for realism and comfortable to use.

More expensive than rubber Silicone dildos are also and excellent choice. They are expensive sex toys as they are often handcrafted in small batches. What is a real advantage over other soft materials is that Silicone is non-porous and can be sterilized by boiling in hot water for 5 to 10 minutes. You can even put your Silicone dildos in the dish washer (but remember to take them out before you have friends over for dinner!

Another advantage is that Silicone dildos last longer than other soft sex toy materials and they come in a wide range of vivid colors. Silicone lube causes a chemical reaction with silicone toys, causing them to disintegrate so make sure that you only use water-based or silicone-free lube with silicone sex toys.

In the future I will discuss the most prized dildos out there - glass!

Remember condoms should ALWAYS be used when using sex toys with a partner, and changed when switching orifices.

Eve and Steve J Sex Toy Tape News

Sorry to say, the link that I put on this board for the Eve and Steve J Sex Toy Tape is no longer working.

I guess her lawyers shut it down.

If I find it elsewhere I will be sure to post a new link to the Eve and Steve J Sex Toy Tape story.

Now He is Just a Fuck Buddy.

Looks like hurricane Dennis is going to miss us down here but the winds were really howling last night and it poured like crazy.

It seems that it was storming more last night in my townhouse though that wit was outside as I finally broke it off with boyfriend Kevin. I knew for a while that he was not the one, but I guess I just didn’t have the guts to break it off as the sex was great (of course) and he works for the school system too so it is now going to be a little awkward.

well after I told him how I felt last night (again!) this time it sunk in. He didn’t even ask if I wanted him to stay over, he just went around from room to room looking for his stuff until I had to stop him because I felt so bad for him. I told him what ever was in the laundry I would wash and he could pick it up which seemed to cheer him up some.

Then just like a typical guy he asked for one more roll in the hay for ”old time’s sake”. I agreed. It may have been a mistake as I think he thinks I was making him my new fuck buddy. A ”friend with benifits” is ok with me, as long as the guy does not think he owns me and that usually becomes the case.

I think one of the things that kinda freaked him out about me is this sex toy blog. Although he is not very private about his sexually experience and is (was I guess now) not intimidated when I bring toys into bed with us, the fact that I was going to share some of our personal experience freaked him out.

From experience I have learned that some guys think that it is and insult if I want to bring sex toys into our lovemaking. They think they might be lacking something or they just can’t satisfy me if I have to bring sex toys into bed with us.

My advice to let a guy know that they are not lacking anything! Sex toys to me are like a fantastic dessert after a great meal. I don’t want to just have the dessert and if there is room for more after a meal why not have dessert!

Would you believe he just called? He seemed so damn clingy again so I told him that I want to stay friends but for now lets just take it easy.

More Sex Toy Talk!

I don’t have much time to post today but as a teacher on vacation I want to give you at least a little history on sex toys.

The oldest sex toys that have been found are 12,000 years old from China. The Chinese made dildos out of ivory, jade, and even wood. They served as both sex toys as well as pieces of art to be shown to others.

Another sex toy that has been used throughout the ages has been unripe bananas that both ancient Polynesian and Arab women used.

Early mid-eastern women used dried camel dung coated in a hard resin. Surprisingly dung has also been used in many cultures as a crude form of contraceptive that has been proven scientifically to actually work. Sorry but I will stick to my regiment of the pill and condom combo!

I have to tell you when it comes to sex toys despite what some say, size definitely matters!

When building my huge collection of sex toys I learned the hard way that some of the small vibrators or very slim line sex toys whether they are vibrator or dildo just leave me craving for more. I never had kids and consider myself small so I guess small sex toys may be even less satisfying for me then.

Even though it is small I still love my I Vibe vibrator which is also great when I am on the road!

Don’t get me even started about some of those ultra huge dildos and sex toys. I mean some of the very large sex toys I can handle but some of the freakishly large sex toys like the King Dong Dildo which is 15 inch long and more than 2 inches wide and is just beyond what I can handle so it sits on a shelf in the back of my closet.

The rabbit sex toy vibrators have become one of the most popular sex toys due to media exposure, even the ladies on Sex in the City raved about their little rabbits and backed up by the fact that the Rabbit Vibrator really does work great for any women. I personally like the cordless ones better but that's just me.

I do not have anymore time to post right now, but I will continue either tonight or tomorrow!

Sex Toy Tape Causes Eve to Hire a Private Eye

Since Steve J denies any wrong doing in the regard to the new infamous Eve sex toy tape, Eve has decided to go and hired private investigator to find out who took her personal sex tape and blasted it out over the net.

Things haven’t been going so well for Eve lately between this sex toy sex tape and the fact that some of her nude pictures from her stripper days were also plastered all over the net.

Eve claims that her naked pictures that are being passed around were done by a man who was blackmailing her over the sex pictures and told the New York Daily News: ”He’s called all these radio stations telling them about the photo. I mean, he’s the type of guy who wakes up every morning to do this.”

I just don’t get why she is upset about naked pictures if she was as stripper. I can see that she might now want to be seen with a dildo shoved in her, but nudes? Give me a break!

I have to say that Paris Hilton might have handled her situation a little better by making some coin off of her unfortunate ”leaked” tape.

So far no one that I have known who saw the Eve Steve J Sex Tape was really that impressed. I can not say the same for the Paris Hilton sex tapes which were real hot and sexy and difinatly worth paying to see. Both the Eve sex tape and first Paris Hilton sex tape had something to share in common, real shitty picture quality! The second round of Paris Hilton videos were of much higher quality, so who knows, maybe some better Eve sex toy tapes are on the way!

Vibrating Condom Ring

Condoms aren’t very popular in India; only four-five per cent of women use them as a contraceptive even though the risk of HIV infections spreading is rising by the day so the Indian Government is contemplating introducing vibrating condoms in order to make condoms more popular.

These vibratory condoms will have a battery-operated small chip in them which is supposed to enhance pleasure and according to officials increase acceptability which will hopefully make them popular among commercial sex workers.

Now I think that adding an additional element of excitement and adventure to condoms are a good thing. So far I have never seen one of the vibrating condoms for sale anywhere (trust me I have looked!) but I have bought and used a Vibrating Condom Ring and I have to say it was really cool. It was not the best sex toy I have ever used but it did make my toes curl when the vibration got me off. It is so small and discreet it is a perfect sex toy for traveling or just being on the go.

I have seen these Trustex Vibrating Ring and Condom Pack selling for $9.95. I also tried and loved this ultra cool Vibrating Cock Ring. It gives clit-rubbing vibrations for her and a thicker stronger erection for him. You can buy this vibrating cock ring here.

Search for the Perfect Penis

So I am looking on the web for a perfect looking and feeling toy penis and I find this interesting review of a show on Australian TV called the ”Search for the Perfect Penis”.

Now of course I can not get that program on cable right now (not even pay per view LOL), but the review brought to light some interesting fact I did now and some I didn’t so I thought I would share these Penis secrets with you.

The Search for the Perfect Penis is a Canadian made show that is part user’s manual for a penis and part quirky fact file. Apparently the whole show is done in a fun tongue-in-cheek manner and goes through how a penis is a multipurpose tool designed for urination, procreation and pleasure.

The show interviews urologists, tantric sex teachers, a lesbian sex toy salesperson, a dildo designer and a bunch of guys who don’t have any real qualifications other than owning a penis and thinking about it.

Now I am not a guy, but apparently many men’s identities and sense of self-worth are tied to their penis and most that fell as though they are under average size are surprisingly not as the average penis size is smaller than most think.

For women’s sexual pleasure girth is more important than its length (I could have told you that!). Most men who surgically increase the size of their penis are policemen, sportsmen or in the military.

Some interesting penis facts:

• Sperm is not fattening. (woo hoo!)


• Boxer are no better than briefs for sperm production.(news to me)


• A circumcised penis is not less sensitive.


• In order to get a good, fast acting, and long lasting stiffy, a low-fat diet is good, stress is bad, and smoking is very bad.


• There is a link between penis size and the size of a man's feet, hands and/or nose.


• By the age of 60 a man will have produced between 35 and 60 liters of semen, one teaspoon at a time, containing 350-500 billion sperm cells.

Ok these are not earth shattering but it was interesting and if this show ever does play on cable here I am going to be sure to watch it!

Oh well, after all this penis talk it is time for a ”buz” so I will catch you later!

China's Sex Toy Industry

I just read an interesting article about China’s sex toy industry which accounts for 70% of all adult sex toys made world wide.

The article was in the British paper The Guardian and was written by Jonathan Watts and it really amused me.

The communists during the Cultural Revolution made people wear unisex ”uniform type’ clothing and often separated the men from the women. Sexy Clothes were discouraged, displays of affection were very taboo and that even in the 1980’s a whopping 84% of people who were getting married were virgins! Can you imagine that in less than 20 years they went from 84% of the people had no premarital sex to 30%!

Of course gays and lesbians were harshly discouraged, but now gay and lesbian bars are in vogue and in the large cities such as Shanghai, Guangzhou they are packed with patrons looking for love and a little fun.

The article went on to say that the first sex toy shops started opening in the capital Beijing only in 1993 and now there were more than 2,000 sex toy stores in Beijing alone. That’s a lot of vibrators, butt plugs, and blow up dolls with Cyberskin vaginas!

The article starts in a sex toy factory and described the boredom and tedium of putting pubic hair on plastic vaginas, studs and chains on bondage outfits, and inserting motors into vibrators and then making sure that they work. All I could do is picture Lucy from the I Love Lucy show on a production line making dildo as fast as she can and popping those she can not make in her mouth!

The article went on to say that sexual values remain very conservative in the countryside, but I am sure that is going to change as soon as they start playing with all of those sex toys!

Want to read more? The article is right here.

Sex Toy in Eve & Stevie J Sex Tape

OK. We all have had boyfriends or girls friend take pictures or videos of us when we were naked or having sex. It is also a given that ex-boyfriends or ex ex-girlfriends can show the sex tapes or pictures to other people so R&B diva Eve, you just have to chill!

You may know Eve from her musical career, or from Barbershop and UPN’’s Eve, or even the Super Bowl Pepsi commercial showing how fans can win free songs via iTunes.

Eve is not a stranger to sex and posing nude for money as she was once a stripper and has had previous difficulties with nude photos being circulated, but friends say this new released sex tape of her having sex with a sex toy is another matter all together.

This Monday afternoon in a popular Web site and linked by gossip, music and sex blogs, a less than 30 second sex tape showed Eve and ex boyfriend Bad Boy Entertainment producer Stevie J playing with a dildo while he was jerking off. She was only 21 when the tape was made which is dated Nov. 20, 1999.

You really can’t see Stevie J’s face because his arm blocks the shot but you can see Eve’s face real clearly twice for a few seconds. You can hear her sighing and groaning as they both jam the dildo sex toy in her pussy but he is pretty quiet.

What I want to know is why would she be using a white dildo when there are so many great black dildos out there?

It seems that the dildo she was using was the 8 inch standard $29.95 Dong.

You know even a white girl like me has had a black cock in me a few times and I have a few black dildos and sex toys I take out every now and then for a change of pace. I do find that when I masturbate alone that I usually have my eyes shut anyhow so I guess it doesn’t matter too much whether I am using a black sex toy or not.

My favorite black dildo sex toy is the Bam Realistic Dildo which is a 12 inch thick 100% realistic black thunder cock. I really don’t want to use anything much bigger than that as it is more than enough to handle.

I watched the tape many times and even though I have used the 8 inch standard $29.95 Dong I personally can’t say for sure that what it is but 2 people I know who own sex toy stores swear that that’s what it was because of the shape of the dildo. I mean what did they do, take a dildo print of the sex toy? If I was her I would use the Mr. Marcuss 9 Incher anyhow as this dildo is a pretty advanced sex toy and is just a little more, but the way it was built and how it feels inside me makes it worth it.

According to Eve’s spokeswoman ”This is a personal tape that was made years ago with her boyfriend of over two years. The fact that a private moment is being made public is a violation, and we would hope that people would respect her privacy as they would their own.

Legal action has been taken to have it removed immediately.” and word is she hired a private investigator as Eve can”t figure out how this sex tape with sex toys got out and her ex Stevie J. says he has nothing to do with it. He is also ”horrified” because he has kids. Big freaking deal! Without sex he would have those kids!

Well by now I think you want to see the movie for yourself so you better click on it fast before it gets taken down by her lawyers. You can see the Eve Stevie J Sex Tape with sex toys here. (sorry the link was removed)

The funny this is Eve is all uptight about going after those who released her sex tape and going the legal route when only a short time ago the Wilhelmina modeling agency sued Eve for breach of contract. The suit, filed June 27 in New York State Supreme Court, does not specify damages.

Eve has a ”pit bull in a skirt” image. Isn’t it nice to see that skirt ripped off and a dildo shoved up her pussy instead?

Girls...keep your sex tapes, nude pictures and sex toys locked up!

To Busy Even for Sex!

Sorry everyone, this is my first year grading papers and I have been so overwhelmed at how much work it is. Some nights I have lain naked in bed for hours trying to fall asleep and my mind keeps racing and seeing names and dates from my student’s papers.

Sometimes I wish I was more like a guy. They can masturbate and as soon as they cum - bam - they fall right asleep.

I on the other hand can buzz my vibrator to my hearts delight and I will cum like a freight train but either I still want more or I end up raiding the fridge.

Between grading papers I just haven’t had the time to try and new toys but I can report that Gary did get the attachment to the Remote control sex toy (you can read about the remote control sex toy here.) and he claims he feels way better than he expected and Shauna was embarrassed to tell me too much but she said it added a whole new dimension to the ultimate cyber sex toy.

Well I have to get back to work but I promise to post more!

Safe Sex with Sex Toys

I was thinking this weekend I made a huge mistake on this sex toy blog by first telling you about toys and not first making sure that if you are going to play with sex toys, you have to play safely.

Not to be annoying or boring I wouldn’t be responsible unless I tell you about sex toy safety.

First of all some great safe sex sites are:

• Safe Sex Blog
• Sex Toy Instructions

You know you won’t have sex with a strange guy without a condom; you shouldn”t share your toys with others unless your sex toys have a condom on them too.

Never use any sex toy as an anal toy unless it made to be used that way. Any toy inserted into your rectum, even a 7 inch dildo should have as flared base or stop built into it or you may have a very embarrassing trip to the emergency room.

Makes sure to clean your toys with quality cleaner that will safely and completely clean your sex toy, but also won’t damage your sex toys either. I have used the Intimate Organics Green Toy Cleaner for years now and it works great and my toys last longer too!

Some people get allergic reactions to the latex in some of the softer sex toys. If you or your partner is allergic to the sex toys I would just get rid of the sex toys that are made with latex as there are so many great sex toys that do not have any latex.

Quality Glass Sex Toys are the safest and most hypoallergenic sex toys and are the easiest to clean as well. Quality made glass sex can be cleaned it super hot or boiling water. There are not cheap, but they will last a lifetime and what can beat that?

Sex Toy Cleaners

Glass Sex Toys

Condoms

Sex Toys You Play With Over The Internet

So I just started this sex toy blog and write about how much I like my little rabbit vibrator. No sooner than I finish posting on my sex toy blog and I get a phone call from my friend Shauna who goes on and on about the ”ultimate sex toy” that she just tried and that her life is going to change now...blah blah blah.

You see Shauna’s has been married for 3 years now to Gary. She is my first friend to get married which she did while she was still in school to her High School sweetheart. Even though they didn’t have much he did treat her well and those 2 lovebirds were always all over each other.

Now Shauna is always bitching to me that he is usually too tired and their sex life was not what it was. She was even thinking that he may be fucking around on her as she caught him once in their senior year and never lets him forget is (big mistake!).

Of course Gary travels with a laptop and always stays in a hotel with a high-speed internet access. They tried having cybersex and even got 2 of those web cams but found they were always to dark and it was hard to stay in the screen. Sometimes they have phone sex but it’s not the same thing.

Now Gary can be a dork and real cheap when it comes to most things but this time he came up with a winner. He bought a wireless box that hooks up to his computer at home that he controls over the internet that controls a whole bunch of sex toys!

He bought 2 wireless remote activated toys for Shauna: a vibrating egg and a jack rabbit vibrating sex toy from Sinulator Toys. Now Gary sits at night in his hotel room with his laptop and is able to control the toys over the internet!

I thought that this is the coolest thing I have ever heard. Imagine meeting people in a chat room and being able to really have totally safe sex with them and never having to deal with any lame assholes.

I saved the best part for last. He just ordered an attachment that he hooks up to his laptop and when he puts his cock in it and moves around, the sex toy such as a vibrator on the other computer thrusts and moves as he does!

This new idea in sex toys has to be the best idea I have ever heard of!

Hi! I Love Sex Toys!

I am so excited to be able to start my very own sex toy blog! I may not be much of a writer but since I have a lot of passion about what I am writing about I am sure you will forgive me if what I write is too amateurish!

I have been a very sexually since I was a young teenager but once my second boyfriend Andy bought me my first sex toy, which was a vibrator, I turned into what can be described as into a sexual animal. My first real orgasms were with this little wonderful piece of pink plastic long gone I named ”Chico”!

I found that when using a vibrator, even if I was fingering myself for a while beforehand, I learned it feels a whole lot better to use at least a tiny bit of lube. That little bit of lube keeps it sliding so much better, and I am never sore - even after a marathon session!

I still love using vibrator either alone or with someone else. I found that some of the real cheap ones don't last very long and can be real noisy. Waterproof vibrators really don't turn me on and some of them are just annoying ...ugh! I guess the one like best are those rabbit vibrators that I have been using for years now.

I bought a jack rabbit vibrator and found that I really love the ones with the beads that twist and turn while I place the vibrating rabbit ears around my clit and I start cumming like a machine! I found a bunch of cheap rabbit vibrator sex toys here and some more Rabbit Vibrators here.

I like to buy most of my sex toys online as I shopped and shopped and I always save money from going into a neighborhood adult store. Besides who wants to go there and be seen by someone? I also found there is a huge selection out there and that why I have 2 big Rubbermaid bins in my closet filled with sex toys. When I bring a guy over and they see my collection they go nuts...you know how boys love their toys!